Simba .. Congratulations on your new thread and thank you for describing me as your friend which is a real honor and please count me in as one of the followers here.
Regarding your third point " I do not use sl nor tp,I have conceptual sl in my mind, so, if situation changes I exit or reverse immediately ,regarding tp, I just take them when I feel like doing so" this is exactly what I do and try to explain to people but there minds are already set from the books and every where they read about placing stops(so that the broker could hunt them)
which is most of the time so tight that they're 90% get hit..i'm not against stops but I keep it in my mind, though I have to place one when I'm recommending a trade so I make it wide so it doesn't get hit easily and if I had a reverse signal I reverse and most of the time is way before the SL..hey I'm starting to feel home already.